Posts Tagged ‘Michael’

A Promise Keeping Performance

A little over a year ago, I made a promise to myself. When I faced surgery to remove my thyroid, I faced the possibility of losing my singing voice, which I have always treasured but never actually used. I was blessed with a good ear, good lungs and the ability to carry a tune but I let my fear of stage fright keep me from singing anywhere except alone in the car. The fear of losing my ability to sing without anyone having known about it except me was far more gripping than stage fright and so I made a promise to myself. I promised myself that if I came out of that surgery with my singing voice intact, that I would get up on stage and sing – stage fright be damned!

I hemmed and hawed for awhile, as we humans often do when grappling with our fears.

Then, I got an opportunity to audition with Michael’s band, 420 Sunday. Apparently Michael had been telling them about my skills. ♥  That audition resulted in a spot in the lineup as their lead singer just 1 short month ago. Michael has gotten some slack from others about having me in the band. Some say we’re crazy, but those that know us know that we could take over the world. ♥

We had our first gig this past Friday night, only 2 weeks after forming our setlist. The guys were awesome! They made this first time on stage for me as easy as possible. I was still SO nervous (I clung to the mic stand like a security blanket and didn’t move much) but I got up there and I did it! I sang! I sang LOUD and it felt AWESOME. I cannot wait to do it again. Keeping that promise felt mighty good. I have to give major props to Michael because he believed in me, he encouraged me and he was honest with me. I never could have done this without him.

So now that you know the story – watch a few of the videos and let me know what you think! Which one is your favorite? I personally love “Like a Stone”, so I’m going to include that one. :)

737 Days of Peace, Love & Happiness

It’s been a while since I’ve written a love blog about my Michael….

Since we launched JobShouts, things have been a little hectic. You would think that because we work from home we have a lot of free time but it’s quite the opposite. Michael and I work a lot. We’re blogging, tweeting, attending conferences & tweetups, meeting with developers, devising site improvements – you name it. All for the sake of advancing the brand and building our network. Sometimes it helps to step away and remember what it’s all for.

I love him.

I love this man that has given me 737 days of peace, love and happiness.

He reads me. He understands me. He loves me despite my flaws. Sometimes, he even finds them charming.

There are a lot of things that can go wrong in relationships after 737 days; and even more things can go wrong in that time when you’re together 24/7. But Michael makes it easy to  love him. His dedication to me, my family and our purpose is what keeps me going on days when I just want to give up on everything.

737 days and I still love him more each day.

They say, “No man is worth your tears and the one who is won’t make you cry.” I say, girls are gonna cry anyway but the man who truly loves you will comfort you even when you’re crying crazy tears.

I give you exhibit A, Michael.

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Michael, thanks for loving this crazy girl that much. ♥

If You Can’t Beat ‘Em, Join ‘Em!

Hey you, sitting there on your computer with that blank stare… Are you looking on Monster.com again? Still unemployed? Feeling sorry for yourself right about now, too, huh?

Well STOP IT! I mean it. Right this instant, right now, cut it out. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and think about what you CAN do. You’ve no doubt heard the phrase, “if you can’t beat ‘em, join ‘em!” Well, what’s stopping you?

entrepreneurSo many people who are out of work are afraid to “work for themselves”. Why? What have you got to lose when you already have nothing? For many businesses these days, it takes very little capital to start. I speak from experience. I started JobShouts.com along with my partner, Michael Quale, back in January of this year. I was laid off from 2 jobs in 2008 and Michael found himself out of work with a back injury. We could have floundered but we chose not to. We’re still barely scraping by but we are building something. Something extraordinary that we hope will lead us to our fortune; or at the very least, help us pay the bills.  While we are doing this, we’re also tapping into our expertise to help bring in money. I started helping folks to re-write their resumes. I tapped into the knowledge I have that job seekers need: how to get a hiring manager to notice their resume. Some weeks I have lots of work, some weeks I have none. One thing is for sure though, I’m not sitting idle and I’m keeping my skills sharp. Sure it might not be enough to support myself on (yet?) but business is picking up through referrals so ya never know.

Meanwhile, Michael has acquired a mountain of knowledge in SEO practices and has proven his skills time and time again.  Not only with JobShouts, but with local merchants too. He’s now doing SEO consulting work and it’s building momentum also. Both of us have also bartered with customers for items we need/want, so we’re exchanging services with other local merchants helping to keep their businesses and families going strong.

The biggest benefit of all (to me) is that I am only accountable to myself for my time. If my children are sick, I am home with them. If there’s a special school function, I am there. If I want to take a whole day off and lie in the sun, I do. My point is, it’s my life and my time and I can decide best how to spend it. Maybe you feel that way too….

So what can you do? Ask yourself, “What special skill do I have? What do I like to do with my time and how can I turn that into income?” It might be a creative outlet like sewing, beading or scrapbooking. It might be that you’re a software developer who just never took the leap and tried to build his own app. Do you like dogs? How about dogwalking for your neighbors? It can be anything. Just try!

You don’t have to be wealthy to take a chance. If you’re already earning nothing, you can’t earn any less.

My Valentine

I’m not really much of a Valentine’s Day fan. In years past it held expectations I could never live up to; expectations for “gifts” to express one’s love.  I have always felt that love should be every day and the gifts of love don’t need to be bought.

This year, there were no expectations – just another day of love in my life. My valentine is Michael – and he is my valentine every single day. He wrote this really sweet list of things he wanted to say to me on Valentines Day. No one has ever written anything for me. It might sound corny, but it was just the best gift I could have gotten.  It was a profession of his love and feelings on the internet! So you know it’s gotta be true! (wink)

Well, I have my own list of things I want to say to my man on Valentines Day!

hearts1. You are without a doubt, the love of my life.

2. When I doubt myself, you bring me back. Thank you.

3. You make me laugh. Every single day. You have no idea how good that feels.

4. Craigs list rules!

5.  I’ve got some clean sheets! Wanna help me put em on or take em off?

6. Your touch still gives me goosebumps. Every time.

7. Your kisses do make everything all better.

8. The last time I saw you (a glance a moment ago) was like the first time.

9. How about you, me and a sunset?

10. I believe in you. I believe in me. I believe in us. <3

When The Stars Aligned – The Story of Robin & Michael

I first “met” Michael in September of 2007.  I had very recently separated from my husband, with no intentions of going back.  After 8 tumultuous years of marriage laden with verbal and emotional abuse, it came to a very nasty end; ultimately landing my soon-to-be-ex in jail for Aggravated Stalking. Read more »

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